by Edelyn "The Audacious Catcher" T. Tan
Photo by: Kyla Marie Barilea
They say our reflection communicates an expression that imitates the ebb and flow of our lifestyles. If you are someone who has constantly been beaten black and blue in brawls against your own insecurities, then the slumped shoulders and tired wrinkles mirrored in your eyes aren’t anything new. To flip that frown upside down, navigating through the thorny path of introspection will lead you to unearth the jewel that is your own individuality.
Each day we stumble upon crossroads; several pathways littered with choices as we make a trip from one destination to another. In a journey to pursue new routes we pick up new skills along the way and often take detours, seeking the thrill of a brand new experience even if it leads us off course at times. Nevertheless, we keep track of our progress by using them as stepping stones to reach the peak of our potential. It’s okay to make your way up the slippery slope at your own pace for there’s no merit in comparing your altitude to others because everyone has their own path to take. Mapping out a track to success is no easy feat, one that may take years to accomplish, so the least you can do is be kind to yourself.
Ambition may fuel you with the energy to take the challenge head-on, but it doesn’t prepare you for the immense pressure which doubles with each shaky step towards the top. Real-life isn’t kind enough to give you a free ride to success. It would rather leave you out alone on the streets, cackling in sadistic delight as the long trek wears out the soles of your shoes and causes you to trip over your own feet. A single misstep is all it takes for your confidence to take a nosedive off the cliff of despair. When you hit rock bottom, sometimes the temptation to stay down can overwhelm all reason, but remember this: it’s easy to give up, but it takes guts to get back on your feet.
Your endurance will be tested and the confidence embedded in you will take a beating every time things don’t go as planned, but overcoming these hurdles will no doubt be the ticket that will help you regain your courage and dignity. Instead of wishing you were back at the starting line, push towards the unforeseeable future with an unwavering determination that will eventually lead you to your desired destination. No matter how big the roadblocks in your way, be persistent in pursuing your endeavors, fuel yourself with the desire to achieve, and never give up on chasing after your aspirations.
After accomplishing one milestone at a time, take a look in the mirror again. You’ll see that the bruises on your skin are fading little by little. When glimmers of hope light up your eyes and a self-assured grin is painted over your face, perhaps you will realize that the tireless effort and fervent drive to make a mark in the world is a reflection of your inner strength and mental fortitude. So, strive to obtain an unyielding spirit that can constantly fight against the woes and throes of life. Radiance emanated by self-acceptance will surely be the light that guides you down the path you are meant to take.
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